You are in a long-term relationship. Once happy and connected. Then bang – it’s over.
Perhaps it was because the kids arrived, maybe those financial pressures, challenging family demands, maybe one partner was just unhappy, wanting to move on.
The reality
Separation becomes a reality, they have left. You may have tried to bargain, promise something different, even beg for another opportunity. No, they are gone. Now what?
You often struggle to understand. Perhaps you thought the relationship was ok, maybe the odd issue but certainly nothing to have it end so abruptly. Devastation takes over. You become confused, angry, depressed. You cry, want to stay in bed, can’t face the world. This isn’t fair.
What can you do?
Stop, breathe, face reality, learn whatever lessons you can from that relationship, and know that anyone who just walks away was not in love with you. Perhaps they once were and through no fault of anyone, it just ran dry and someone made the move first to leave.
We usually find both people are far happier soon after and once the dust settles. But how do you get that dust to settle faster?
You can work with the power of your mind. Empower yourself and remove that old emotional attachment. We need to stop thinking we can never meet another partner, that our life is over because we currently feel so abandoned, rejected or alone. Life isn’t bad, it has just changed. You may be in shock but you can and will recover and move forward. Taking some positive steps can really help process this event faster. Grab your Relationship Recovery session today, make those positive changes, regain your strength and confidence and look forward to the exciting future you have before you. You can learn to cut that cord and become unattached to that previous person. They clearly didn’t deserve you and you truly do deserve to be with someone who does love and embrace you.
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